Hope Sardella

A Math Professor Hung Up on Me for Noticing the Numbers

A Math Professor Hung Up on Me for Noticing the Numbers I met him online. He was a mathematics professor at the University of Oklahoma. Early on he told me, almost casually, that he hoped I wasn’t a mathematician — he didn’t want to date another one. My father was a computer scientist; I’ve always […]

The Sapiosexual Who Can’t Live With Another Sapiosexual (But Also Can’t Live Without One)

The Sapiosexual Who Can’t Live With Another Sapiosexual (But Also Can’t Live Without One) There is a particular kind of modern man who will tell you, with complete sincerity, that he is attracted to intelligence. He will light up when a woman argues back, quote philosophy, dismantle his points, and hold the room. He will […]

Two women at a tarot card reading inside a psychic shop at night, illuminated by red neon signs and candlelight

My Roman Catholic Grandmother Was Also a White Witch — And She Left Me 30 Tarot Decks

  She prayed the rosary, volunteered for Catholic charities, and did crystal healing on AIDS patients in the 1980s. My grandmother lived at the crossroads of faith and mysticism — and I’ve been standing there ever since. When I think about my spiritual life, I don’t just think about church or the Bible. I think […]